The Carol Affidavit Against Bob Atchison

In 2007, my husband Roger and I met Oma Hamou, whom I shall be referring to as Alexandra, her Christian name, throughout most of this... at a yard sale we were having. We were trying to sell all of our furniture, appliances, household items and miscellaneous other items. Alexandra was very easy to talk to and I opened up to her about the financial problems Roger and I were having, including the fact we were going to lose our home to foreclosure. Alexandra said she was interested in seeing what we had for sale in our home so I took her in to see our furniture and appliances. Alexandra picked out several items and asked me to email her with the prices of the items, which I did. Alexandra paid us for all the items she purchased from us but continued to let us use the washer, dryer, refrigerator and one of the sofas until February when we though we would have to be out of our home. Alexandra continued to stay in touch and purchased even more of our belongings over the next 4 months. In or about late March...Alexandra and I had a falling out of sorts, which I contribute in large part that Roger and I were getting closer to losing our home and I was overly sensitive and extremely depressed.

In May, my husband of 32 ½ years filed for divorce. I was totally devastated. I don’t know why but I thought he was seeing Alexandra…I had a feeling that Roger and Alexandra had stayed in touch…What I didn’t know was that Roger had turned to Alexandra as a friend, nothing more. But, I’ll go into that in more detail a bit later. I let my insecurities get the best of me, even though I knew Alexandra had a boyfriend and I knew deep down that Roger still loved me. Before Alexandra and I had our “falling out” not only had I been able to open up to her, but she opened up to me as well about her past. One of the things Alexandra told me was the fact that her ex-husband Marcus has beat her, causing her to miscarry their child. Alexandra also told me that Marcus had abused her child as well as his own children.

One day when Alexandra was over at my house she wanted to show me not only her website but also blogs from some men Alexandra referred to as her stalkers. She said these men had been harassing/stalking her since 2000. I checked out some of the information on the internet about Alexandra because I was curious, so when Roger filed for a divorce, I remembered all the blogs I had read about Alexandra/Oma. My insecurities really got the best of me at this point so when my husband received a phone call while over having dinner with me and I heard Alexandra’s voice I got upset. I heard him say to the person on the other line, “so what do you want to do tonight?” When he got off the phone and I confronted him that I knew I heard Alexandra’s voice, and he lied to me and told me it was his friend…I was crushed and told Roger to leave.
After he left I decided I was going to call Bob Atchison, one of the men Alexandra had told me about. At this time, I was extremely vulnerable and wanted to find out the truth about Alexandra. When I called the number I had found for Bob Atchison on his Pallasart website, I asked to speak to Bob. The man who answered the phone asked who was calling and I gave him my name. When the man asked what my call was in regards to, I answered “Oma Hamou”. That’s when he told he was Bob. Bob seemed very nice and I told him about my husband filing for divorce and told him what happened earlier that evening. I also told him that I knew my husband and deep down I knew he wouldn’t do anything with Alexandra. I also didn’t believe that Alexandra would betray me even though we had a falling out. At least that’s what I thought until I spoke at length with Bob for about an hour.

Bob Atchison proceeded to tell me that it was Oma’s M/O when a woman turned on her that she would then go after their husband and sleep with them. Throughout my conversation with Bob Atchison another man was in the background adding to the conversation. I do not know who this man was. I asked Bob about the fact that Oma had helped to restore a church in Russia. Bob told me that she didn’t do as much as she said she would do monetarily. At this point in the conversation Bob told me that Oma would never be welcomed in Russia again that the Russian Church referred to Oma as “Satan’s Handmaiden”. That blew me away and really freaked me out.

I told Bob how she had bought a lot of our belongings and he asked me if she actually paid for all of them. I told Bob that yes Oma had paid for everything that she bought from us. I also told Bob that I had felt really close to Oma and now I was hurt by her because I thought she was my friend. Bob told me that he thought that Oma was his friend and he too was hurt by her. Bob told me that Oma had wanted him to work on a film she was going to make and he did work for her but she didn’t pay him so he took her to court and he won a judgment against her. Bob also told me that Oma had wanted to hire some of his friends to work on her film but that never happened.

Bob also told me that Oma hired a hit man to kill him but when I asked about why she wasn’t prosecuted he said they couldn’t do anything because it was across state lines. Even though I was devastated with my own personal problems, I thought that sounded strange…why couldn’t the authorities prosecute across state lines?

Bob asked me if I had a church that I went to and if I had a pastor I could talk to but I told him “no”. Bob sounded very sincere and said he would pray for my husband Roger and me. He told me if I could get Roger away from Oma before anything happened, then I might have a chance of saving my marriage. At some point in the conversation Bob asked me about one of Oma’s sons and I made the mistake of revealing private information about one of them and where he was. I asked Bob if he knew Oma’s ex-husband Marcus and asked if he had beat and abused her and the children. Bob told me Marcus was old and weird but also told me that Marcus had not abused Oma or her child or Marcus’s children. Bob also asked me where I live…at some point in the conversation Bob asked me if Oma lived near me…I never told him her address.

Also at some point in my conversation with Bob I slipped unintentionally and referred to Oma as Alexandra. Deep down I did not want to tell Bob that I knew Oma as Alexandra because I still truly believed Alexandra was my friend and I still had it in the back of my mind that Alexandra referred to Bob as one of her stalkers and I wondered, what if it was really true? When I did slip and call Oma Alexandra, Bob told me not to call Oma by Alexandra because Alexandra was a Russian Saint and he said it just isn’t right for her to go by a Saint’s name.

Bob told me about an old man that Oma had lived with for a time. Bob told me that Oma had pretty much gotten the old man’s money, leaving no money for his own children. He also told me that Oma had gotten the same old man to get her an American Express card in her name and that Oma had run up the American Express bill to a large amount. I asked Bob about the blog and websites he had written against Oma and he told me that he had removed his blog he wrote about Oma on advice from his attorney in 2001,which I will refer to again later… My conversation with Bob was an hour long and ended with Bob telling me he would pray for me. I thanked him for taking the time to speak with me and we hung up.
In or about the early part of June 2008, Roger and I were living together in our home again but found out we had to be out of our home by the end of June…Roger was still pursuing the divorce and I was still trying to work through our problems. One day in the early part of June I decided to call Alexandra and was very happy that I got her voicemail. I left a message for her, referring to her as Oma (because of what Bob had said about Saint Alexandra) informing her that I hadn’t forgotten about the one item we still had that she had purchased from us and that I would ask one of my neighbors to deliver it to her. I was shocked when Alexandra returned my call! We talked for quite a while and she told me how my husband had turned to her only as a friend and that she was very upset that he had filed for a divorce, especially when she had seen us “happy” when we first met her, even though we were losing our home.

Alexandra came back into my life and she is a true friend I thought she was. Alexandra has spent countless hours counseling Roger and me. She has explained to Roger why I was jealous and why I was depressed…from a woman’s point of view. She has helped me be a better wife/person by pointing out my insecurities and flaws. Alexandra has also continued to buy more of our personal belongings and stand by us as a true friend even though she had read what Mortimer B wrote on her personal forum about Roger that I have to assume was written by or for Bob Atchison because the only way anyone could have known about Roger was through Bob Atchison and the post was in extremely poor taste.

At this point I realized that Bob Atchison had deceived me when he told me he removed his blog in 2001 and hadn’t written anything about Oma since that time. Well then, why is my husband Roger mentioned by name on Alexandra’s site by someone? Alexandra didn’t write it. In fact, the evening she read it, she called Roger because she was upset and asked Roger if I had written it. Roger handed me the phone and when I talked to Alexandra, she asked me if I had posted it and I told her no, I hadn’t because I did not write it. After I hung up with Alexandra, I told Roger that I had called and talked to Bob Atchison and I told Roger to call Alexandra and tell her that I had talked to Bob. Alexandra then called me and I apologized for having called Bob. I also explained the circumstances that led me to calling Bob Atchison that evening. I figured that would be the end of our friendship but to my shock and surprise, Alexandra told me she totally understood why I called Bob and she forgave me.

Alexandra continues to advise both Roger and myself and I’m very happy to report that Roger and I signed the paper to have the divorce dismissed and a judge did just that. Roger and I are officially still married and very much in love. Alexandra has been, and continues to be a true friend. If someone she cares about needs something, she tries her hardest to help them. My husband and I are living proof of this fact.

Source:http://www.omahamou.com/oma/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=32&start=300